Tuesday 2 March 2010

Glass Half full or Half empty?

 
A Message from Noelyne.....

What is your approach to life?  Are you grateful for what you have?  Or do you focus on what's wrong?  Do you complain at the slightest thing?  Or do you put yourself in the other persons shoes before judging?

I meet many lovely people every week all with there stories to tell, their problems to share.  Each person will handle a similar situation in different ways, that's the beauty of being human.  The power of thought and choice.  I recently met two different people with similar problems with there adult sons.  Both were equally concerned for the welfare of their offspring however, one person was quite depressed and negative about the whole situation while the other was not allowing it to affect the quality of her own present moment enjoyment of life.

The only thing you can control in life is the way you react to what happens.  It's a choice that you can make.  You cannot control another person's behaviour, that's their choice.  Sadly, sometimes people close to you do make poor choices and decisions, regardless of what you have said and done in the past.  At best you can influence people around you however, it is always their choice as to how they behave.  So far better then to focus on your own behaviour and choose to not allow the quality of your life to be affected by the poor decisions of others.

Stay focused on what you want.  You only get one chance at this life so you may as well choose to be happy now.

Enjoy the process of life!

Noelyne Jones

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