Thursday 24 June 2010

Why do Friendships end?

A message from Noelyne...

Feeling upset about a friendship that has ended and you don't know why?  Wondering what you've done to cause the friendship to end?

Have you ever heard the saying that people come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime?

If it's for a reason then you or they have something to learn, something you need help with or that you can help them with. Perhaps you have a problem that needs to be solved. A fear to overcome or help moving a project forward.  When you ask for help you normally receive it perhaps by a chance meeting or a phone call or by discovering a new piece of information whilst browsing the Internet or in the library.

You may be unhappy in your job and a chance meeting opens up a new opportunity. You may have problems with a relationship and you meet someone who gives you advice which helps you see it from a different perspective.  Whoever you meet for a reason stays as long as you need help. Once you or they have learned all they need to they move on.

When someone comes into your life for a season it's normally due to the circumstances for example, friendships made on holiday, or in college or acquaintances from clubs or colleagues at a place of work.  They are in your life for as long as you or they stay at the place, organisation or club etc. The people you make relationships with due to circumstances and when those change you lose touch.

And then there are the people who will always be on your life no matter what happens. The childhood friendships, your family your life partner, the people you may not see for a while but when you do it's as though you pick up where you left off.

It's your own personal network of supportive people who you can turn to when you want.  The amazing thing is that when you need help and you ask the universe, someone will turn up to help you out. 

I've also learned not to get upset when people move on and don't stay in touch.  Don't take it personally as it will be because you or they have learned what they needed.

Enjoy the process of life,

Noelyne Jones

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