Tuesday 22 December 2009

Letting go of a relationship

When you find yourself in a long term relationship and you start to have doubts about whether it is right for you, it can be hard to think about letting go. Part of you may want to leave and move on, part of you may be fearful of losing what you have and want to stay. Perhaps you fear not finding someone else.

It's important to understand that you do not need the other person. It is your choice whether you stay or go. Likewise it is the other persons choice to stay in the relationship or not. If things are not working out then sometimes it is best to let the other person go, no matter how painful that process might be. It will be best for both people in the long run. If the other person is right for you then they will come back when the time is right.

Know that you can handle whatever happens.

Noelyne

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