Bad Traits to Avoid If You Want to Achieve Your Goals
Many people stay unsuccessful or have alternating experiences with success and failure, simply because they do not know that they behave in an unresourceful way. Poor behaviour is often as a result of bad habits and personal characteristics that ultimately lead to poor results and not getting what you want in life. Some of the things you've been so used to doing for several years may be the main reason why you struggle. If no-one has pointed out the consequences of your behaviout then you are probably not aware of the effect you are having on your life and that of others.
The Basic Bad Behaviours/Habits or Traits
No 1.
Laziness is one of the negative habits that can be associated with someone who is unsuccessful. Unfortunately, lazy people usually do not want to get rid of the problem. However, If you want to achieve your goals, you need to understand the value of hard work and perseverance. Some of the greatest people in the world are known to work more and harder than those who did not leave a mark. Successful people tend to work longer hours, sleep less, eat less, wake up earlier and take more risks than anybody else. It takes
sacrifice to reach your goals. The most important thing to know is that everything you have ever wanted is just outside your comfort zone. If you stay in your comfort zone you will not learn new skills, you won't grow and develop. Staying in your comfort zone means you will stay safe and comfortable. This may be quite acceptable for many people. However, if you want to develop your potential and achieve your goals then you need to get into your stretch zone regularly.
No2.
Fear is another bad trait that people have. They fear things and events so much that they stop themselves from even trying. Some people are even afraid of success subconsciously in a way that they refuse any opportunity that can make them great. Some people do not realize that they just do not or cannot handle the bigger responsibilities that achieved goals come with.
Personal Bad Traits
Selfishness is a bad trait that you need to get rid of to achieve your goals. There are individuals who do not want to get help from others because they do not want to share their expected success. This also suggests that a selfish person believes there is a limit to the amount of wealth, success and abundance in the Universe.
Being Negative
Pessimism is a trait of losers. In most cases, pessimism is tied up to fear. Seeing things in a negative light will lead to poor results too, most of the time. If you start your day negatively, everything else will already seem bad, so you will focus more on the little things that do not matter and let them bother you, instead of keeping your mind on your goals. Choose to start the day in a positive mindset. Take 10 minutes each morning to meditate and then imagine yourself having a really fantastic day. See yourself enjoying being successful at everything you need to do.
Seeking Help
The first step to treating bad habits to achieve your goals is recognise that you have them and then choose to make changes. First of all start to believe that you are a confident, capable and strong individual. You are responsible for whatever happens in your life. Although problems are bound to happen, you know that you always have the ability to stay successful in life as you choose. Minor setbacks are supposed to be a means for you to become better and stronger, so turn them into learning opportunities rather than pessimistically thinking that the world is against you.
Here's an activity to get rid of bad traits.
Write a list of all the things that you consider to be bad traits about yourself.
Next, put the opposite trait for each.
The opposite traits are now your new characteristics to be adopted. Start practicing one good trait per
week or month, then add another one for consistency.
Over time, you will realize that success follows you because of your positive aura. You will become more attractive to people and success.
Enjoy the process,
Noelyne Jones
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